I believe that if a man and a woman get together and both sides get turned on, the man is more likely to be more desperate to get off.

Is it common among women though?

  • idiomaddict@feddit.de
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    6 months ago

    The female orgasm is pretty easy for me to achieve alone. I can generally come within 5 minutes if I really want to.

    Coming during sex is totally different, but that’s because of the other factors involved, not because female orgasms are inherently rare or difficult for everyone.

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      6 months ago

      Yeah same, it’s always been between about 30 seconds and 5 minutes, with occasional “it’s not gonna happen” times, and as I get older more multiples too, that didn’t happen for me when young. Husband is about 3 minutes on the low end, usually 10, sometimes hour or more and still wants to get off, I would give up way before that.