I found out I was neurodivergent cause I became friends with a lot of people who are, and when I would talk about my experiences they would basically tell me its related to this or that disability. So I realized I was neurodivergent from my friends basically telling me I was. I came to accept it but never felt comfortable identifying as neurodivergent. Always felt I needed to specify “probably have ADHD” or “I probably have autism.” Always felt like I needed to add plausible deniability to avoid being accused of self-diagnosing. Basically I wasn’t confident enough. When I got my diagnosis I didn’t feel like I needed to do that anymore. I could say with confidence “I have ADHD.” It made my experiences in school feel real, and took away a lot of the guilt I felt for failing. I realized I was not the problem, I just wasn’t getting the treatment I needed to succeed.
I found out I was neurodivergent cause I became friends with a lot of people who are, and when I would talk about my experiences they would basically tell me its related to this or that disability. So I realized I was neurodivergent from my friends basically telling me I was. I came to accept it but never felt comfortable identifying as neurodivergent. Always felt I needed to specify “probably have ADHD” or “I probably have autism.” Always felt like I needed to add plausible deniability to avoid being accused of self-diagnosing. Basically I wasn’t confident enough. When I got my diagnosis I didn’t feel like I needed to do that anymore. I could say with confidence “I have ADHD.” It made my experiences in school feel real, and took away a lot of the guilt I felt for failing. I realized I was not the problem, I just wasn’t getting the treatment I needed to succeed.