• oatscoop@midwest.social
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    If this is how you act around other people … I don’t think the problem is other people.

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      This is how I act in response to other people’s abuse. How will you ever learn not to abuse me if I don’t punish you myself? No one else will do it.

      The fact is, it doesn’t matter how I act - you made up your mind to hate me as soon as you found out I exist and crammed me into your “other” pigeonhole. Your reactions are now completely detached from my behavior, and you’ll treat me like shit no matte how kindly I treat you, simply because you now assert I’m infinitely “less than” you. This is how you protect your fragile ego.

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        If this is how you act around other people … I don’t think the problem is other people.

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          Then you’re a fool, manipulated by malignant narcissists, and now you’re on the end of their leash, permanently their tool.

          If I don’t defend myself, you all will succeed in killing me. Treating you better will only convince you I’m stupid enough to fall for your con.

          You’re an enabler of abuse. Piss off, tool.

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            Why are you acting like these people here replying are your direct abusers? We don’t even know you and you are accusing us of trying to murder you.

            Do you not see how insane these words you are saying are?

            I’m sorry your life has been hard and seemingly full of abuse, but we are not those abusers.

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              Why are you acting like these people here replying are your direct abusers?

              Because not only is there nothing stopping them from doing the exact same thing my abusers did, those same abusers will force them to do it, or kill them if they resist. The entirety of society is a hierarchy of abuse - that’s it’s purpose, and enforced with an iron fist if necessary.

              Do you not see how insane these words you are saying are?

              Bullshit. It’s not “insane” - you’re just fucking ignorant and mentally lazy. You’re an enabler, pure and simple.

              I’m sorry your life has been hard and seemingly full of abuse

              No you’re not - as a human being, you’re not capable of being sorry for events that you ultimately benefit from. My social isolation clears the way for you - I cannot compete against you for resources because of being ostracized.

              we are not those abusers.

              You can’t not be those abusers, because you don’t have an alternate source from which to learn other behaviors. Your parents, and everyone of their generation were abusers too - and killed off everyone who wasn’t. No one is left alive to teach you how to not be abusive - that’s why exactly 100% of the people I grew up with abused me; the people who would have supported me are dead.

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        Nobody here abused you and yet you still went on a 4-5 paragraph rant about how shitty they are. You’re the problem.