I was spanken on butt by a girl today, immediately I returned the spank to her butt as an instinct, and she says “no you can’t.” What does that mean?

  • peanuts4life@beehaw.org
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    1 年前

    I’m gonna make a guess you’re in school?

    In that context, probably she wanted to get a reaction out of you. It could be that she is a bully, but if she is someone you get along with, or a friend, she may think you’re interesting and want to see your reaction.

    It sounds silly, but sometimes people pinch or poke people they like, just you see them react.

    She probably wasn’t expecting you to spank her back, but she was the first to spank, so your retaliation was understandable.

    If it continues and she keeps spanking you, and you don’t want her too, you should ask her to stop, and if she keeps it up, report her.

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    1 年前

    Maybe go ask her? Like, “hey, what was that all about?” And see what she says.

    You may never know…

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    1 年前

    It means she doesn’t want it but it is odd she spanked you randomly assuming she didn’t even ask if you want it

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        1 年前

        @banana_meccanica@feddit.it Not sure what answer you expect me to say as I don’t know her and just some random stranger on the internet at best

        Whatever the reason, it’s wasn’t alright but that doesn’t mean you do it back

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          I ask in a genuine way, what this mean? It’s just a bully approce? Do I need to considered myself bullied or it is a sexual thing and she is attracted and want my sexual attention? I don’t wanna be bullied as I don’t want ignore an interest.