It’s a cross between our innate limitations, a societal system which works against us but continues from sheer momentum, and then by design by those who benefit. I don’t think most people woke up and decided to live apathetic lives. We are chronically cognitively tasked

Now this is a top tier showerthought

Read OP’s history. While they likely are suffering, they aren’t looking to change. Post after post, they just shoot down all the well-meaning attempts to help. Save your efforts

Thank you. That’s kind of you to follow up with us

Sounds like it’d be faster than the nervous system could process pain?

Another comment mentioned Baron’s workbooks. Any other resources for exercises which you’d recommend?

Yes

The fediverse needs more of this honestly

Straight up. We’re entering a period of likely suffering and that’s that.

Thank you! I think being on the kbin/mbin framework sometimes sets me back, especially when it comes to hopping over to other instances or doing searches

Right? There are a handful of users that I’d expect here but don’t see

Also, fan service

We get physiologically attached to our primary partners (One anthropologist calls love an addiction). That makes it hard to distinguish what we want. Just, account for that. The decision regarding whether to remain in a relationship should be based on a history of functioning in a mutually agreed upon way, or a commitment to do so. Not, although it’s hard, on the feeling of pain which accompanies the possibility of separation.

Edna sounds like the Karen of the 20th century

Give out the best candy possible to the few who come by. The rumor of the amazing trove will spread. But then “run out” early so that some of them will miss out and learn the lesson for next year

Man, you took it too real too quick

Because the soap bar might get stuck up in there

What’s the knot you are referring to??

My reference points for modding, Skyrim and Cyberpunk, both seem to produce sufficient content that having separate communities would seem to work better. A shared community risks building a high noise to signal ration for any particular subscriber

To the other great responses here, I want to add that the act of creating cards for your deck, especially when you go beyond a straightforward multiple choice format, is in itself a form of study. To create a good test question usually you are digesting the information more deeply