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Cake day: September 13th, 2023

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  • I don’t think you understand my point.

    Let’s break this down by making up a hypothetical sexual history for the woman in question:

    Guy 1 - Committed relationship, waited 3 months

    Guy 2 - Casual fling, no waiting

    Guy 3 - Committed relationship, waited 2 date

    Guy 4 - Casual relationship, no waiting

    Guy 5 - Hookup, no waiting

    If, now that she’s seeing guy 6, she magically decides it’s time to be responsible and wait for a while. Any guy that has self respect isn’t going to tolerate that. Why is this new guy so different than than the previous ones? Why does she make him wait, but none of the previous men?

    Anyone is going to figure that she is 1. Not attracted to him and is settling down after having fun to secure stability, or 2. Has cognitive dissonance about her past. A guy not accepting that and being skeptical of her intentions or level of honesty is fully justified.

    And for the record, I apply my principles evenly between men and women. Casual sex is disgusting and a long sexual history is a sign of impulsive, irresponsible behavior or placing no value on your body or relationships. Man or woman.