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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • That sounds awful. I dunno. I mean, at the heart of it all, on some level you’re allowing him to continue this behavior by going to him each time. If you don’t go, he has to either keep calling until you give in, or if you don’t give in, he can get pouty about it, yell about it, or eventually come and actually find you.

    If you stand your ground and refuse, eventually he has to change his behavior. But, getting to that point will be very uncomfortable. So the question is, how much do you want things to change? Are you willing to go through that discomfort to get your needs met?






  • For the curious:

    Speaking to MailOnline, Willot confirmed this ‘was indeed a tricky procedure. They are very reactive and won’t stop struggling once caught, preventing any shaving attempt if not anaesthetised.’

    This was done by exposing the ants for a few seconds to carbon dioxide, then strapping them down firmly.

    Hairs were removed using a high-power binocular telescope and a very sharp blade.

    ‘It’s the same as shaving your own chin: the scalpel blade has to move in the opposite direction of the hair’s growth. It has to be a delicate and gentle motion,’ said Willot.

    After practising on large soldier ants, he found that a smaller worker ant could be entirely shaved in an hour of delicate work.

    He estimates around 40 ants were shaved altogether to produce seven good examples for the experiments.

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