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Cake day: November 7th, 2023

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  • No, it doesn’t work - that is exactly the problem. If you don’t want to listen to the podcast (which would be a shame), they list a number of studies in the show notes.

    There are a few select cases for which personal nudges work, but only to a miniscule degree which is far less than what the authors claimed. And naturally, proposing nudge theory hinders actual, much more effective, systematic changes that would really benefit people - and that is a major problem.

    It’s a face, fake feel good strategy that can be employed to claim improving a given system - like attaching a little plastic string to the plastic cap of your beverage container so companies can claim to have improved the plastic littering problem.








  • I don’t know what your previous setup was, but given that running resolved fixes your DNS issues, run:

    ln -sf ../run/systemd/resolve/stub-resolv.conf /etc/resolv.conf

    This will point programs that use /etc/resolved.conf during DNS resolution to the local DNS server provided by systemd-resolved.

    Then, enable resolved so that it is started when you reboot:

    systemctl enable systemd-resolved.service

    Finally, start the service so that it is available immediately:

    systemctl start systemd-resolved.service

    You will want it run those with the required permissions, e. g. via sudo.








  • Yeah, you can be a good parent and still miss your old life. Also, your previous life wasn’t necessarily “selfish” - what kind of bleak, one-dimensional outlook is this?

    You can love your kid, love to spend time with them, and still want to go to that one event, concert, knitting group, cookout, rave party, bike ride, marathon, whatever. Often, you can integrate your kid once they’re old enough, and at other times you’ll have to sacrifice your plans, maybe not getting together with an old friend you haven’t seen in a while. If that makes you feel a little sad and disappointed, that’s called being a human being with nuanced emotions, not being selfish.

    Being a good parent is about loving your kid, trying to integrate them, spending quality time with them, all while staying healthy, emotionally balanced and hopefully teaching your kid how to achieve just that.