You’re their family member too, you know. They have every right to dread your mouth as yours does theirs. I say give them damn good reason.

I keep the peace for my mother’s sake and the fact that I have no interest in any of the rest of the family. Otherwise, I’d consider lighting a fuse. Hell, if it wasn’t important to my mother that, after long years of struggle, she gets to have a semi-normal family life, I’d not even bother going.