Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.
Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.
I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.
Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.
Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.
Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren’t gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.
Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.
… also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao
Absolutely scandalous
Nice name, Dharma Curious… I should have made Dharma Chameleon…
I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.
I only date other bi switches.
Hey wyd
You may proceed…
I’m guessing you’re in Canada based on your instance so I doubt it would go anywhere. If you’re in the Bay Area I’d grab a beer/ slice.
I don’t consume alcohol or intelligent creatures, but if you’re ever in Waterloo, we can have sex.
Wrestle for top.